Saturday, June 7, 2014

A., K., and Alice

Hey, everyone, I need some advice again.
So, I have this friend, and for the sake of privacy, we will call her Alice since I don’t know anyone with that name ;)
So as you may know if you have read my previous posts, my cousin “K” is staying with me. So her and I have this mutual friend her name is “A”. So, like I also have this other friend Alice. She dislikes both of them. She has done some things to me that I would love to just forget, but I can’t. I want to mend our friendship, but she makes it so hard. Recently, she sent me an email asking me for help in which she also let me know that she dislikes “A” and “K” and thinks they are bad influences. As much sense as that makes. Ask me for help, then insult my family and friend…
So, naturally, whether or not I should have, I told “K” what Alice said. Alice found out through various circumstances, and now she is mad at me.  I told her-again, my big mouth taking charge-that she didn’t get to just talk about my cousin like that without “K” knowing. I don’t like gossip, and I told her so. She hasn’t replied yet, but I know that it will probably hurt her, and this will damage our friendship even more.
I have no idea what to do. As I said, I valued her friendship, and there is also a lot of pressure on me to be friends with her since our parents are so close. Please give me some advice. I need it badly.
Also, I would ask that you send some prayers up for me. Even if I don’t know you personally, I can use all the prayer I can get. Thank you so much for reading. Please leave a comment, or just email me.

Thanks, have a blessed weekend <3

“Because the Sovereign Lord helps me,
   I will not be disgraced.
Therefore have I set my face like flint,
   and I know I will not be put to shame.”

Isaiah 50:7