Saturday, June 7, 2014

A., K., and Alice

Hey, everyone, I need some advice again.
So, I have this friend, and for the sake of privacy, we will call her Alice since I don’t know anyone with that name ;)
So as you may know if you have read my previous posts, my cousin “K” is staying with me. So her and I have this mutual friend her name is “A”. So, like I also have this other friend Alice. She dislikes both of them. She has done some things to me that I would love to just forget, but I can’t. I want to mend our friendship, but she makes it so hard. Recently, she sent me an email asking me for help in which she also let me know that she dislikes “A” and “K” and thinks they are bad influences. As much sense as that makes. Ask me for help, then insult my family and friend…
So, naturally, whether or not I should have, I told “K” what Alice said. Alice found out through various circumstances, and now she is mad at me.  I told her-again, my big mouth taking charge-that she didn’t get to just talk about my cousin like that without “K” knowing. I don’t like gossip, and I told her so. She hasn’t replied yet, but I know that it will probably hurt her, and this will damage our friendship even more.
I have no idea what to do. As I said, I valued her friendship, and there is also a lot of pressure on me to be friends with her since our parents are so close. Please give me some advice. I need it badly.
Also, I would ask that you send some prayers up for me. Even if I don’t know you personally, I can use all the prayer I can get. Thank you so much for reading. Please leave a comment, or just email me.

Thanks, have a blessed weekend <3

“Because the Sovereign Lord helps me,
   I will not be disgraced.
Therefore have I set my face like flint,
   and I know I will not be put to shame.”

Isaiah 50:7

7 comments:

  1. :( I'm sorry I will be praying, call me soon :(

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    1. Thanks, hon <3 I will try to call you later today <3 Love youuu <3 Any advice?

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  2. You did the right thing...you told K what Alice said and in my opinion that was the right thing to do. If she is angry then that is her fault not yours she's the one who said all this,and I think maybe she should of went to K nicely and told her how she felt....maybe.
    But Alice should of kept this all to herself this is all her fault, you did the right thing and if she is angry at you it's okay...she Will probably get over it...but I think you should go to her and talk to her.

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    1. Never mind I think she should of just kept her mouth closed.

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    2. Haha ok. Thanks. Imma call you while I eat lunch now, ok? <3

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  3. Okay call me whenever you can :) love youuu <3

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